Study Recap: Finding Forgiveness by Elder Richard G. Scott

Title: Finding Forgiveness
Author: Elder Richard G. Scott
Source: May 1995 Ensign
Link: http://www.lds.org/ensign/1995/05/finding-forgiveness?lang=eng

Rating: 3/5

Favorite Points

• Each one of us encounters unique challenges meant for growth.
• Every incorrect choice we make, every sin we commit is a violation of eternal law. That violation brings negative results we generally soon recognize. There are also other consequences of our acts of which we may not be conscious. They are nonetheless real. They can have a tremendous effect on the quality of our life here and most certainly will powerfully affect it hereafter.
• Which of us is not in need of the miracle of repentance? Whether your life is lightly blemished or heavily disfigured from mistakes, the principles of recovery are the same. The length and severity of the treatments are conditioned to fit the circumstances.
•  Obedience and faith in the Savior give you power to resist temptation. 
• Study and ponder to determine how serious the Lord defines your transgression to be. That will bring healing sorrow and remorse. It will also bring a sincere desire for change and a willingness to submit to every requirement for forgiveness.
• Abandonment of sin. This is an unyielding, permanent resolve to not repeat the transgression. By keeping this commitment, the bitter aftertaste of that sin need not be experienced again. Remember: “But unto that soul who sinneth shall the former sins return.”  Joseph Smith declared: “Repentance is a thing that cannot be trifled with every day. Daily transgression and daily repentance is not … pleasing in the sight of God.”
• Please understand that confession is not repentance. It is an essential step, but is not of itself adequate. Partial confession by mentioning lesser mistakes will not help you resolve a more serious, undisclosed transgression. Essential to forgiveness is a willingness to fully disclose to the Lord and, where necessary, His priesthood judge all that you have done.
• Remember, “He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.”
• Full obedience brings the complete power of the gospel into your life with strength to focus on the abandonment of specific sins. It includes things you might not initially consider part of repentance, such as attending meetings, paying tithing, giving service, and forgiving others.
•  The Lord said: “He that repents and does the commandments of the Lord shall be forgiven.”
• Satan would have you believe that serious transgression cannot be entirely overcome. The Savior gave His life so that the effects of all transgression can be put behind us...
• Do not take comfort in the fact that your transgressions are not known by others. That is like an ostrich with his head buried in the sand. He sees only darkness and feels comfortably hidden. In reality he is ridiculously conspicuous. Likewise our every act is seen by our Father in Heaven and His Beloved Son. They know everything about us.
• resident Kimball taught: “To every forgiveness there is a condition. The plaster must be as wide as the sore. The fasting, the prayers, the humility must be equal to or greater than the sin.”
• “It is unthinkable that God absolves serious sins upon a few requests. He is likely to wait until there has been long, sustained repentance.”
• In closing, with all the tenderness and sincerity of heart I invite each one of you to thoughtfully review your life. Have you deviated from the standards that you know will bring happiness? Is there a dark corner that needs to be cleaned out? Are you now doing things that you know are wrong? Do you fill your mind with unclean thoughts? When it is quiet and you can think clearly, does your conscience tell you to repent?
• For your peace now and for everlasting happiness, please repent. Open your heart to the Lord and ask Him to help you. You will earn the blessing of forgiveness, peace, and the knowledge you have been purified and made whole. Find the courage to ask the Lord for strength to repent, now. I solemnly witness that Jesus Christ is the Redeemer. I know that He lives. I testify that He loves you personally and will help you.

Scripture Insight: Moroni 10:22

22 And if ye have no hope ye must needs be in despair; and despair cometh because of iniquity.

Discussion
I came across this scripture while reading a talk recently on lds.org. It made me remember another talk I read many years ago while still on the mission. In that particular talk there was a story about a missionary who was complaining about his companion who took forever to get ready in the morning and they were never able to leave the house on time. What was happening is that the companion was praying for 30 or minutes each day when he awoke in the morning.

Well that doesn't sound too bad, right? I mean, come on, the guy is praying. But the Mission President still wanted to address the issue because it was causing problems within the companionship and while praying is nice and all, 30 minutes can excessive when you have a tight schedule like missionaries do. So the MP sits down with this young Elder and asks why he is praying for so long. His response was that he had to wait until he could feel the spirit in order prayer properly.

Now the MP immediate response was to ask about any immorality or sins that the Elder had not repented up. The Elder denied. But either through revelation or knowledge of the scripture above (probably both), the MP probed deeper with the young Elder who finally confessed to some serious transgressions that he had not repented of.

It stuck out to me then as it does now that sin impedes our ability to have hope and faith in the gospel. I recently interacted with someone who was struggling with their faith and testimony that the church was true and the President Monson was indeed a prophet. I thought then, but not mention it to the person, that perhaps there was some sin or transgression that they had not repented of that could have been holding them back. Although hard, sometime we have to take that first step into the darkness in order for the light to come.

Although we may feel hopeless and in despair in our iniquities, I know that if we take that first step of repentance by exercising even the smallest sliver of faith the Lord will bless us.